I like to chat with JX.
Every chat with him, I benefited.
He wants me to learn to protect myself, to be more tactical.
Not to knock my head against those who are too dense to move.
He said there are always more efficient/effective ways to get the message across without making myself bleed.
He shared with me his situation and taught me how to 借刀杀人
Having said that, he doesn't want me to learn the nasty things from him. He wants me to pick up work-life balance from him, and not
"how to be nasty".
So nice of him, always care for me.